Not all tolerating is cowardly, because one kind tolerates,call magnanimous; The person that is not all magnanimous magnanimouses to everybody, because have a kind of attitude,be poison.
不是所有的容忍都是懦弱，因为有一种容忍叫大度；不是所有大度的人对所有人都大度，因为有一种态度是毒。
Archaism cloud: “ measures small blame gentleman, excessive not the husband. ” is such really, in abdomen of prime minister in feudal China can punt is to spend, the person that get let sb have sth into the bargain is in and Rao Ren is to spend, gentleman is magnanimous swinging is to spend more. “ spends ” to be magnanimity namely, be an upright person be about to magnanimous. The Lin of country of Zhao of period of the Warring States is similar, for safe interest of the country, not hesitate the interest of sacrificial individual and avoid everywhere the Zhaoguo that lets special to him dissatisfaction general cheap quite, make a hanger-on of an aristocrat extremelies admire eventually, cheap quite long narrow flag like that penitent, offer a humble apology. Lin Xiangru makes because of his magnanimous he and cheap are changed quite enemy for friend, the knot is neck of cut one's throat hand in, also make at the same time solidarity of official of civil and military, make enemy state inorganic can be multiplied. The importance of magnanimous sees one spot.
古语云：“量小非君子，无度不丈夫。”的确如此，宰相肚里能撑船是度，得饶人处且饶人是度，君子坦荡荡更是度。“度”即为度量，做人就要大度。战国时期赵国的蔺相如，为了国家的安全利益，不惜牺牲个人的利益而处处避让对他非常不满的赵国大将廉颇，终使门客五体投地，廉颇幡然悔悟，负荆请罪。蔺相如因为他的大度使他与廉颇化敌为友，结为刎颈之交，同时也使赵国的文武官员团结一致，让敌国无机可乘。大度的重要性可见一斑。
Or the cloud: “ measures small blame gentleman, avirulent not the husband. ” also is such, hero breaks wrist is poison, abandoning Che Baoshuai is poison, the world only me alone honour more poisonous. “ poisonous ” is a kind of manner, work shade firm is decisive, straight from the shoulder, this is poison. Lin Xiangru dissolved in-house contradiction of Zhao Guo with his magnanimous, but he is not pair of anybody to magnanimous. Take move and family name a round flat piece of jade with a hole in its center to change 15 cities with Qin Wang when him, when seeing Qin Wang wants act shamelessly of purpose, he issues cruel-hearted and minatory Qin Wang to want with with family name Bi Yushi all is burned; Meet in Shi Cheng when Mian, when Wang Guse of Qin Wangling Zhao bully composition disgrace when him, lin Xiangru forces with perish together photograph Qin Wang, force its to attack v/LIT an amphora-like jar for Zhao Wang, redeem a situation. The success of visible Lin Xiangru depends on his magnanimous not just, still have his sinister way.
或云：“量小非君子，无毒不丈夫。”亦是如此，壮士断腕是毒，弃车保帅是毒，天下唯我独尊更是毒。“毒”是一种态度，做事阴狠果断，一针见血，这就是毒。蔺相如用他的大度化解了赵国的内部矛盾，但他并非对任何人都大度。当他带着和氏璧去与秦王换十五城，见秦王有意要耍赖时，他下狠心威胁秦王要与和氏璧玉石俱焚；在石城会渑时，当秦王令赵王鼓瑟而侮作文辱他时，蔺相如以同归于尽相逼秦王，迫使其为赵王击缶，挽回局面。可见蔺相如的成功不仅仅在于他的大度，还有他毒辣的作风。
Cao Cao, a fierce and powerful person of generation troubled times also, can build an as big as two country in troubled times the country of be locked in a stalemate, the “ noxiousness ” with him is inseparable. Because his shade firm is courageous and resolute, in assassinate Dong Zhuo breaks the can unhurried Xiang Lv after be defeated to cloth borrows a horse and escape; “ can be spoken to teach me person of negative the world rather after killing a good intention to help his person by accident, do not teach the world person to owe the extremely selfish word of my ” , so he just can build a so powerful nation. Because of his magnanimous, in enemy grow Guan Yun with him advocate after fair be scattered, him take sb in is in Cao Ying and treat sb with courtesy, guan Yun grows the message that asks about Liu Bei to also hold the post of him to leave later, so ability can have the following of follow of a lot of dare to die, close Yun Changcai to be able to in Hua Rong so put him one horse. His “ noxiousness ” props up him to arrive from one interpose civilian the Wang Zhe over 10 thousand people; His magnanimous makes he escapes from death every time, head off a danger. Visible magnanimous and noxiousness photograph complementary and become force is how horrible, magnanimous sinister person is how horrible.
曹操，一代乱世枭雄也，之所以能在乱世中建立一个与两个大国相持的国家，与他的“毒性”是密不可分的。因为他阴狠果敢，在行刺董卓失败后能从容不迫的向吕布借马而逃；在误杀死一家好心帮他的人之后能说出“宁教我负天下人，不教天下人负我”的极其自私的话，所以他才能建立一个如此强大的国家。因为他的大度，在敌将关云长与他的主公失散后，将他收留在曹营并以礼相待，后来关云长打听到刘备的消息也任他离去，所以才会有许多誓死追随的部下，所以关云长才会在华容道放他一马。他的“毒性”支撑他从一介平民到万人之上的王者；他的大度使他每次大难不死、化险为夷。可见大度与毒性相辅而成的力量是多么恐怖，大度又毒辣的人是多么恐怖。
Have degree avirulent cannot become a major issue, person of poisonous and excessive the world is disgustful. Spend the cornerstone that is a success, poison is successful a flight of stairs, so poison and degree complementary and into, spend small blame gentleman, avirulent not the husband.
有度无毒不能成大事，有毒无度天下人唾弃。度是成功的基石，毒是成功的阶梯，所以毒与度相辅而成，度小非君子，无毒不丈夫。