" leave best " content can be divided roughly for two parts. The first development trend that studied American provide for the aged partly. Come a few years, arrive from poorhouse sanatorium, ministry condition gets huge is improved outside provide for the aged, but this are far insufficient. To be being broken badly can old person, before the terminus of life comes, what is the most important? “ has a place that feeling is him home, the fish that its importance resembles water is same. Such ” problem causes attention gradually, reform public figures explore the way that gives different new live out one's life in retirement ceaselessly, assist the concept such as orgnaization of provide for the aged to get carry out goes putting forward to mix for example. Between traditional beadhouse, safety lives as the first important or urgent business, “ became old but cannot be safe merely to the requirement of the life. ” is among orgnaizations of these new-style provide for the aged, the old person can feel like be in the home, is not to resemble be being restrained by all sorts of regular place in the orgnaization. Exemple into introduce children, animal, plant, “ uses two dogs, 4 cats, the revolutionary ” that 100 birds initiate, the tired of composition of be disgusted with of 3 big pestilential —— that “ beat back raises a courtyard feels, alone feeling, helpless feeling ” , let the value sense of old people be able to reflect, make its heart gets alimentary, those who realize utmost is own, avoid Yu Jiang approach and restriction, in allowing last paragraphs of their way in life, write the story of own life.
《最好的告别》内容可以大致分为两部分。第一部分研究了美国养老的发展趋势。几十年来，从救济院到疗养院，养老外部条件得到极大的改善，但这一点是远远不够的。对于严重失能的老人，在人生的终点到来之前，什么是最重要的？“有一个觉得是自己家的地方，其重要性就像水之鱼一样。”这样的问题逐渐引起关注，改革人士们不断探索出不同的新的养老之路，例如辅助养老机构等概念得到提出和践行。在传统的养老院当中，安全生存作为第一要务，“老了但对生活的要求不能仅仅是安全。”在这些新型的养老机构当中，老人可以感觉像在家里一样，而不是像在机构中被各种规则所约束。例入引入儿童，动物，植物，“用两条狗，四只猫，一百只鸟发起的革命”，“抗击养院的三大瘟疫——厌作文倦感，孤独感，无助感”，让老人们的价值感得以体现，使其心灵得到滋养，实现最大可能的自主，免于强迫和限制，让他们在生命的最后一段路中，书写自己生命的故事。
The 2nd part was told about how to face life end. Medicine is in face such situation, it is to let go, be still main bring a patient out of danger? The author carries an another real story recount, making me clear experience life terminus is how hard. The first-rate job in “ life is ” of the toilet on oneself understands and can accept a person to eventually one die this fact is need courage, also need to learn how to face —— at the same time not only it is oneself, still be family. In this momently, the choice is how hard.
第二部分讲述了如何面对人生尽头。医学在面临这样的状况，是放手，还是全力救治？作者通过一个又一个的真实故事的诉说，让我真切感受到人生终点是多么艰难。“生活中最好的事就是能自己上厕所”理解和接受人终有一死这个事实是需要勇气的，同时也需要学习如何去面对——不光是自己，还是家人。在这一刻，选择是多么的艰难。
This is a very serious book, the author adopts the attitude that studies scientificly, cite conclusion of research of a case of a physically strong patient running a high fever or suffering from such disorders as stasis of blood, as far as possible objective, scientific allegation fact and elaborate a viewpoint. But at the same time, each is then flimsy and true life hour, also smooth flash of tear of regular meeting person.
这是一本非常严肃的书，作者采用科学研究的态度，引用实证研究结论，尽量客观、科学的陈述事实与阐述观点。但同时，那一个个脆弱而真实的生命时刻，也常会人泪光闪现。(文/Hollys)